When someone passes away, the first thing I do is think about all the interactions I've had with them, when was the last time I spoke with or saw them, I look up correspondence I've had from them - letters or emails and I look for pictures of them. I also write about them either in my journal or on this blog. Hopefully this blog won't die!
I don't ever want to forget the people who were special to me who have departed.
I also talk about them long after they are gone. In our family, we will share jokes about people who have passed away, or talk about what they always used to do or say. This is how we try to keep the memories alive. If you don't then the departed one becomes a distant memory and I don't think that is right.
How do you preserve the memories of your departed ones?
Posted by yamfoot at October 25, 2006 01:03 PMYou preserve the memories just the way you are doing right now. Just think of all the times you shared.
Posted by: Campfyah at October 25, 2006 02:54 PMPoetry, & (unfortunately) a lotta coulda-woulda-shoulda...
Posted by: Melody Piggy at October 25, 2006 08:22 PMI talk about them or just think about them a lot.Then there are time when random things just remind you so much of them
Posted by: kami at October 28, 2006 05:52 AM