Here today, gone tomorrow. That's how it was with John....
If I were leaving work too late, I would take one of the hotel's taxi drivers home. John was the last one I took. That night when I called him to come for me, he said he had just turned into his driveway and had not yet come out of the car so it was good timing. I can't remember what we spoke about on the way home. Could have been the Bob Marley music playing on the radio.
The next day when I called him, there was no answer. His lady friend called back to say she was with him in the Casualty department, and he would be moved to the Surgical ward. Illness is private, so I didn't pry. Just told her to tell him get well soon.
Five days later he was dead. Gone. Just like that.
Live your life and live it well, and don't malice people, and don't have wicked intentions towards them, because just like John, you could be gone in a flash. What is the lasting impression that you would like the people you knew to have of you? Think on these things.
Posted by yamfoot at April 29, 2006 05:06 PMI'd be happy if they remembered me as someone who tried to make their lives a little better.
Posted by: kami at April 30, 2006 11:12 AMTrue words. Similar philosophy here on my part. Hope John will be alright.
Posted by: Dr. D. at May 1, 2006 09:37 AMSince I am not a Napoleon or a George Washington, I won't be remembered long, except maybe by family. Still, that doesn't bother me. If they forget me, is just so it go. Life is for the living and it short already, the less time they spend thinking about those who have gone ahead on them, the better, IMHO.
Posted by: Mad Bull at May 10, 2006 08:44 AM