July 22, 2005

Nothing from e-Harmony....yet

Actually, I don't think it will ever come up with a match for me. I too picky and pernickity.

They ask you a whole long set of questions about what you'd like in a potential match etc. Like for eg, would you be willing to go out with somebody who has kids. No. Would you go out with somebody who smokes. No. Would you go out with somebody who was divorced. Hell no (there must be some thing bad about him that caused a divorce to happen!). Would you go out with people of all religions? Most definitely not. No muslims, no 7th day adventists, no, Mormons, no Jehovah's Witness.

So you see, I guess I hardly answered yes to anything, and was really very specific. When I changed my answers a bit, then I got some people emailing saying they want to meet me. Me just switch back the answers and I haven't been bothered since!

Actually, I want the right to choose. I want to be in control. I want to see a guy and say "I like you. Let's get to know each other."

AND I DON'T WANT TO BE BLOODY WELL REJECTED IF I DO THAT!

Posted by yamfoot at July 22, 2005 10:02 PM
Comments

Good luck with that. No one likes rejection if you can reduce the odds why not??

Posted by: Marc at July 23, 2005 12:53 AM

Not 'cause someone is divorced it means that suppem wrong with them IMHO. They could have simply made a choice to marry someone with whom they were not well matched....or perhaps they 'drifted' from each other instead of developing a symbiotic relationship.

We all have our ideas about what we are seeking in potential mates, nutten wrong with that, but at the same time we have to have an open mind.

Posted by: Dr. D. at July 23, 2005 11:25 AM

Well, it seems as though you like your solitude so ah nuh nutten, or have I read you wrong?

Posted by: Mad Bull at July 24, 2005 04:19 PM

So......tell me now..If somebody that meets your very stringent criteria were ever to respond, WHE YU A GO DO???? As one of the staff here commented in recent times "Nobady nuh talk bout fall in love agian you know Ms. Tait, is jus "spirit tek". if you spirit tek the person den you gwaan do a ting!" I saw the light, but obviously it not shining bright enuff for me!!!!!

Posted by: LMT at July 26, 2005 01:42 PM