March 21, 2005

What's a date?

How do you define if you're going on a date? I was in a conversation yesterday and dating came up, and I scratched my head trying to think of when, if at all, I had ever been on a date?

Oh yeah, I remember going to the movie once with a fella who checked for me, then we started going out. The going out lasted for about 6 weeks when it was clear to me that this was not going to work and I called and told him so.

That was around 1993. I can't remember doing anything like that since then.

I define a date as when you and another person go out, but it's not that you're in a relationship. Maybe he checks for you and the date is to try and pursue you. So if that definition is true, then I can't remember going on a date in over 10 years.

Isn't that sad?

Somebody was trying to invite me out this weekend, but mi just couldn't bother. Besides it was for dinner, and I don't do very well at dinner. I'm not relaxed because I always feel that when I smile, he will see the green from the broccoli and the brown from the meat. I'd be self conscious and not enjoy it.

I've said on here before....if you wanna take di Yamfoot on a date, take she to a sporting event, a movie, a hiking trip or something in that vein.

Yesterday as well, a gentleman, after questioning me about my marital status and age, told me that he can look at a woman and tell if she would be amenable to accepting an invitation from a man. He doesn't see such an aura around me. "You have an aura which suggests 'don't ask me out, I'm not interested'" I told him he was dead right.

I find this man and woman thing difficult to do. In the past I've always been very direct, and I like to call the shots. I guess it's about being in control. Whenever a man seems to be pursuing me, I shut off myself. Then I start thinking "he only wants my body" and if I don't find that there is any chemistry between me and him, well, there endeth that.

Maybe I have issues.

Posted by yamfoot at March 21, 2005 06:54 AM
Comments

finally can post. I got two comments. first but is why you got on a screw face an wun gi de fellas a chance doah? ya frighten fa love :-)

Posted by: jdid at March 22, 2005 04:21 PM

second comment. I see the truth finally get out. The one yamfoot is one hot gal! See how she get in this blog and every week complain bout gaining or not losing weight and gotta go ta de gym an doan wanta show her face or body and then looka wha she say in this post.

"Then I start thinking "he only wants my body""

see dat comment dey? dat prove conclusively dat yammie know she look good and tryin to throw de fellas off the track cause she frighten if all a we know dat she is one sexy body gal all de man like angry dog and Dr D will be knockin down her door morning evening an night.

ah girl i see how ya duz come here and trick we punna days. alright den. :-)

Posted by: jdid at March 22, 2005 04:26 PM